Search for happy people. Their happiness will rub off on you like a rancid perfume and provide you with the joy you will need to get through the day. You are free to invest and spend money as you like. The more time you spend with children, the better your day will be. Do not feel trampled on in your relationship. Remember that you are your partner represents the missing piece of the puzzle that you have helped to lay. If something has to change in your puzzle, you will have to change it together – or give up.